Size changes the chemistry
Small cargo makes small particles. siRNA is ~13 kDa and forms a compact 50–100 nm complex; a 10 kb plasmid is roughly 6.5 MDa and tends to form larger, more heterogeneous lipoplexes. As plasmid size grows, the fraction of the dose that reaches the nucleus falls, because both endosomal escape and nuclear entry become less likely.
This is why protocols for large constructs shift toward physical methods. Electroporation does not depend on condensation geometry, so it delivers a 40 kb construct almost as easily as a 4 kb one — at the cost of viability.

